Another College Friday Night

Tonight I had my scheduled date with the Pride and Prejudice. I am perfectly content laying on the floor on a Friday night, amongst pillows and hot cocoa, softly chuckling at Mr. Darcy's arrogance and Elizabeth's ignorance. This film marks the start of a weekend and relaxes my wrinkled stress face into a pleasant half-smile. I look forward to this ritual.

I would like to point out that I have read the book by Jane Austen, and fell in love with its storyline before seeing the film. This I believe establishes my credibility as a true Pride and Prejudice fan.

The entire nature of the book and film intrigues me. Perhaps I am drawn to Elizabeth because of our similarities. She is not interested in men like her peers. She is attracted and notices them yes, but keeps her distance using the gender's shortcomings as an excuse. She has entertained the idea of becoming an old maid, but in honesty she wants the romance without the disappointment.

Mr. Darcy catches her off guard as he sets himself apart from the rest of the male population. Arrogant but quick, it is almost as if Elizabeth sees him as a challenge. They engage in a game of wit, and the love blossoms. All is not peachy as Elizabeth is quick to judge situations without gathering the facts. Her judgments were probably fueled by her inward fear of the newfound relationship.

Yes I see myself in Elizabeth, and I guess every woman could on some level. I love how she never compromises herself or dumbs down her intelligence to appeal to Darcy. The best part is through all the ups and downs she knew that he was the One. Even after she lashed out unjustly the story ends well. He waits for her, fights for her, and perseveres all for her. So mushy, but it appeals to every chick.

I am not a chickflick watcher, but this one gets me. The other films leave me feeling as if love is unattainable; the Pride and Prejudice in contrast reassures me love can be genuine, and can be found even when you aren't looking for it. Like in a crowded ballroom with live Elizabethan music and elegantly dressed ladies.